polygirl4347
New member
So the short story is my husband and I have been with a wonderful woman for a year and a half and she moved in with us a little over 4 months ago. We all consider ourselves married to each other and have comitted to one another completely. My husband and my "wife" are planning to have a baby together. But we are having money issues. My husband and I have a joint account that we added her to which she uses frequently. We also pay all the bills, mortgage, car payment, utilities, groceries. We discussed it before she moved in that we would pool our money together but now she refuses to do it. Sometimes it makes me feel like she is just wanting a free ride. And I hate to have thoughts like that because we both do love her completely. And I do feel like she loves us too. So what do I do?