Originally Posted by sweetmama
This has my general philosophy toward sex in general in the past. Can you explain a little more about your own reasons for making the choice you have?
My journey has taken me the other direction. I was always the person preaching the concept of sex just being a physical activity to be enjoyed like skiing...more hills meant more fun and experiences...I had a massive shift in my own relationship that is a complete turn around for me...for me...for me...for me...so no one tries to engage in a long debate
I don't try to convert others to my opinion or want to change my own.
Here's a link to the sharing of my discovery.