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Old 02-28-2010, 04:31 PM
GroundedSpirit GroundedSpirit is offline
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Originally Posted by YGirl View Post
I have never faked an orgasm in my life and cannot wrap my mind around WHY someone would do such a thing. I am the only one who can "have" my orgasm and faking it does no favors for the person i'm with and would not fool me into thinking that I had one when I didn't.
I think this is insightful.

It highlights one of a number of misperceptions about sexuality that people have.

We ASSUME sex is all about orgasms !

We ASSUME our partners think sex is all about orgasms !

Throw out those two assumptions and sex takes on some new & interesting aspects

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