Originally Posted by YGirl
I have never faked an orgasm in my life and cannot wrap my mind around WHY someone would do such a thing. I am the only one who can "have" my orgasm and faking it does no favors for the person i'm with and would not fool me into thinking that I had one when I didn't.
I think this is insightful.
It highlights one of a number of misperceptions about sexuality that people have.
We ASSUME sex is all about orgasms !
We ASSUME our partners think sex is all about orgasms !
Throw out those two assumptions and sex takes on some new & interesting aspects