Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat
The people who really take time to learn a woman's body can tell if she has an orgasm. We may not squirt out sticky white goo (although sometimes we can) but there are a lot of physical signs, muscle contractions and the like. It's really not that hard to feel a woman's orgasm, if you're paying attention.
And if you are in touch with energy, like tantric practices, there's a whole other level on which you can feel an orgasm, and then take that orgasmic energy and feed it back into them to make the sky open up and see stars
Indeed. Don't get me wrong, there are PLENTY of times when I've had my orgasm(s) and been "finished". There have even been times when my partner has either "finished" theirself or gone without climaxing. But even when I'm trying real hard to come and can't seem to do it, I have no compunction about calling off the fucking and letting my partner know whether or not I had an orgasm. This holds true whether it has been a situation of "casual sex" or sex within a committed relationship.