Hello to both of you.
I've also recently moved to ShangHai, and would love to have a bigger poly friendly community.
I've met some nice poly people on OkCupid, and my in-my-life-everyday life partner will move here in a couple of months. My other loves have said they will visit and perhaps move if they love it.
I've lived in other cities where our poly community was literally hundreds of people - and the comfort, support, and opportunities to meet like minded people was fantastic. I hope to find or create something similar in ShangHai.
Looking forward to hearing from you both. Perhaps we could meet in the next month or 2?