Thanks Atlantis. I'm used to it now, but it was tough when I first started.
Well, I was wrong about it being a mental issue. And it's not a religious issue. She confirms it is a physical issue but hasn't yet said what it is. At this point I am assuming it's HSV from the clues she has given me. Not a big deal to me. I guess there is still some stigma attached to that, especially in our age group, but I'd think she would realize something like that would not be a deal breaker for me. Of course, I could be wrong. I will find out in 9 days.
I've learned a lot more about her since my last entry. All good. It's funny because in addition to not wanting to date mono women, I was also not big on hetero vanilla women. I wrote before that I've been with women who are, frankly, boring in bed. Then I see women on here that are describing all this stuff they like and how PIV isn't the end all be all. I noticed that the women who sound really playful and enjoy all kinds of things are either bi, kinky, or both. Well it turns out Bella is bi. It also turns out she is not completely vanilla. She denies herself any sort of homosexual relations due to religious reasons now. She's not a hard core bdsmer or anything, but I think we'll end up having some playful times.