I am seeking advice on what to do. I know poly is all about loving and all. But wonder if one of the lovers is a cheater?
OK here it is in a nut shell. I am married I have a GF and the lover she has chosen is lying to her partner that nothing is going on. My GF has had sex with her 2 times and partner asked her the last time what does you man know? They have been seeing each other for 4 months. I gave my GF permission to sleep with her if the other girls partner knew. Come to find out she does not know that the partner is lying to her.
I asked my GF to break it off with her. Not to contact her or see her till she fixes the problem. My GF tells me that they are in love. That it is hard for her to do that. She has a soft heart.
I love my GF to death but now my GF will not talk to me for the last 5 days. My head is now splitting. At the end of my rope on what to say or do.
OK here it is in a nut shell. I am married I have a GF and the lover she has chosen is lying to her partner that nothing is going on. My GF has had sex with her 2 times and partner asked her the last time what does you man know? They have been seeing each other for 4 months. I gave my GF permission to sleep with her if the other girls partner knew. Come to find out she does not know that the partner is lying to her.
I asked my GF to break it off with her. Not to contact her or see her till she fixes the problem. My GF tells me that they are in love. That it is hard for her to do that. She has a soft heart.
I love my GF to death but now my GF will not talk to me for the last 5 days. My head is now splitting. At the end of my rope on what to say or do.