Ok, so I will keep this as PG rated as possible, but here is the situation...
My girlfriend (Jill) and I had an... encounter with another of her partners (Mark). During the encounter, I experienced some issues/fears about sexual inadequacy from seeing Mark and Jill together. I'm very confident in my ability as a whole and I don't FEEL inadequate, but I found myself thinking things like:
I guess my question is how do you manage these types of feelings when they have come up in your own life? Or how would you think you would handle these things?
Thanks for any input.
My girlfriend (Jill) and I had an... encounter with another of her partners (Mark). During the encounter, I experienced some issues/fears about sexual inadequacy from seeing Mark and Jill together. I'm very confident in my ability as a whole and I don't FEEL inadequate, but I found myself thinking things like:
- Wow, she doesn't move like that with me
- Man, she seems louder than she is with me
- Why don't we ever do that...
I guess my question is how do you manage these types of feelings when they have come up in your own life? Or how would you think you would handle these things?
Thanks for any input.