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Hello all! My name is Benjamin. I am a warehouse manager by day and a burlesque performer with Creme de les Femmes by night.

My wife and I have practiced an open marriage for 4 years. She currently has a sweet boyfriend she loves. She stays with him a couple nights per week.

I find its much harder to meet people and I have not successfully dated anyone for three years. The last woman I fell for and we had an amazing relationship until she found someone who could give her the full time relationship I could not.

Anyway, its great to find you all!
 
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Greetings Benjamin,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

We frequently find that poly men tend to have a harder time finding people to date with, than do poly women. So I and a lot of other forum members here can sympathize with you on that subject.

It sounds like you and your wife have a positive dynamic in your open relationship, and I think you deserve kudos for being supportive towards her, even when she has a boyfriend while you don't have a girlfriend at this time. I'm glad you could join our site, and hope you enjoy your stay.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

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If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!
 
Welcome! Sounds like you have an interesting life and happy for the most part. I am glad you are accepting of your wife and her boyfriend. :D
 
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