valelapena
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Hi kdt26417!
Ha - no he isn't bad at all 90% of the time! He's really great. If I've given the impression he is awful - he can be awful at times, but so can I. I have no illusions about this.
This last week has left us both bloody and beaten though and we are having a really hard time bridging the gap back to intimacy.
Norwegianpoly
Thanks for all the suggestions! All good ones! I'd love to talk to you more about time with husband AND boyfriend apart like that - that is an arrangement I hadn't considered before..... Hmmmm.....thoughts. I don't currently HAVE another partner, but still new thoughts. Thank you!
Part of my issue is the comparison factor though - how do you deal with that? I am fairly confident in my looks (a new hard won development) and can look pretty nice going out, but I guess I worry any beauty/mystery/interesting element is seen through a veil of kittylitter colored glasses whereas others who live away from him would be seen through a veil of mystery and beauty simply because of their greater scarcity.
Ha - no he isn't bad at all 90% of the time! He's really great. If I've given the impression he is awful - he can be awful at times, but so can I. I have no illusions about this.
This last week has left us both bloody and beaten though and we are having a really hard time bridging the gap back to intimacy.
Norwegianpoly
Thanks for all the suggestions! All good ones! I'd love to talk to you more about time with husband AND boyfriend apart like that - that is an arrangement I hadn't considered before..... Hmmmm.....thoughts. I don't currently HAVE another partner, but still new thoughts. Thank you!
Part of my issue is the comparison factor though - how do you deal with that? I am fairly confident in my looks (a new hard won development) and can look pretty nice going out, but I guess I worry any beauty/mystery/interesting element is seen through a veil of kittylitter colored glasses whereas others who live away from him would be seen through a veil of mystery and beauty simply because of their greater scarcity.