Delphinius
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Please help me find the words to answer the question, "how come I'm not enough" when your partner wants to be everything for you, they believe that I'm everything for them.
I've said the "no one can be everything to one person" but apparently for him I am. He doesn't want or seek other friends (though he has a few but doesn't initiate hang out time with them & such....), he just wants to be with me, spend every moment possible with me.
I've also said it's nothing about what he's not giving me, it's not about "enough". I might have mentioned, the fun of "variety" but that probably was a bad play as seemed to perpetuate, "I can give you variety, we can change it up..." It's just now that I've opened up more to the world, I want to get every happy experience I can. I don't want to hurt someone doing that but if opportunity comes, I want to take advantage of what life throws at me, which is something else I told him.
I've said the "no one can be everything to one person" but apparently for him I am. He doesn't want or seek other friends (though he has a few but doesn't initiate hang out time with them & such....), he just wants to be with me, spend every moment possible with me.
I've also said it's nothing about what he's not giving me, it's not about "enough". I might have mentioned, the fun of "variety" but that probably was a bad play as seemed to perpetuate, "I can give you variety, we can change it up..." It's just now that I've opened up more to the world, I want to get every happy experience I can. I don't want to hurt someone doing that but if opportunity comes, I want to take advantage of what life throws at me, which is something else I told him.