Hello everyone,
I'm a mono guy opening up my mind to poly ideas with my GF, maybe getting close to becoming a Monomour (my GF is bi). My GF is wonderful, she & I have been close for 5-6 months now. She casually used to mention how nice it'd be to go hook up with a girl (all in playful jest , not that she was seriously entertaining the idea or trying to give me hints of any sort)
The next 4 months however, she's in a coop in a different part of the country and I wont be seeing her. Something came to my mind after reading "The Loving Dominant", and I began entertaining the thought of her being sexually unsatisfied (she's a very beautiful, sexual being). I wanted to let her not feel that sexual lacking. So I, being a giver(almost to a fault..) , asked her if she wanted us to explore her meeting up with a lady (she is not interested in men, and currently I am not ready for that myself either).
So we are going forward together. She will be meeting up with her first date lady soon. I am happy for her. But it is not easy addressing the emotions that arise at times. This forum has been very helpful, and I pray I'll be here long enough to learn and expand my mind, and find deeper meaning in my relationships.
Lots of Love,
thepaleob
I'm a mono guy opening up my mind to poly ideas with my GF, maybe getting close to becoming a Monomour (my GF is bi). My GF is wonderful, she & I have been close for 5-6 months now. She casually used to mention how nice it'd be to go hook up with a girl (all in playful jest , not that she was seriously entertaining the idea or trying to give me hints of any sort)
The next 4 months however, she's in a coop in a different part of the country and I wont be seeing her. Something came to my mind after reading "The Loving Dominant", and I began entertaining the thought of her being sexually unsatisfied (she's a very beautiful, sexual being). I wanted to let her not feel that sexual lacking. So I, being a giver(almost to a fault..) , asked her if she wanted us to explore her meeting up with a lady (she is not interested in men, and currently I am not ready for that myself either).
So we are going forward together. She will be meeting up with her first date lady soon. I am happy for her. But it is not easy addressing the emotions that arise at times. This forum has been very helpful, and I pray I'll be here long enough to learn and expand my mind, and find deeper meaning in my relationships.
Lots of Love,
thepaleob