StrangeMagic
New member
Hello from BBQ Land, LOL! I’m finally identifying as poly after many years of knowing that I was. I have always seen myself as part of a gay triad or quad but never had the opportunity to act on it. My first LTR of 9 years was an open relationship and we were both comfortable with that. After my partner passed in ‘91, my next LTR was a monogamous one for most of our time together but toward the end we would sometimes have a third come over to play.
Now I’m single again and have been seeing 2 guys, both in open marriages, and an occasional hookup here and there. But while I can’t take on a husband right now (I’m caring for an elderly parent), I’m craving a boyfriend of my own that I can share more than just sex with. But I really enjoy my other 2 guys and don’t want to give them up. Is that asking too much of a potential new bf?
The goal I have always had is a houseful of guys who all live and love together as a loose “collective.” Is that even realistic? I’m in my mid-50’s and want to experience my dream before I get too old to be desirable. I’d like to hear your thoughts.
Now I’m single again and have been seeing 2 guys, both in open marriages, and an occasional hookup here and there. But while I can’t take on a husband right now (I’m caring for an elderly parent), I’m craving a boyfriend of my own that I can share more than just sex with. But I really enjoy my other 2 guys and don’t want to give them up. Is that asking too much of a potential new bf?
The goal I have always had is a houseful of guys who all live and love together as a loose “collective.” Is that even realistic? I’m in my mid-50’s and want to experience my dream before I get too old to be desirable. I’d like to hear your thoughts.