IndigoTiger
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I just started an intense relationship with an older monogamous man. He knew on meeting me that I was married and has met my husband and GF.
However, he had a couple days this past week where hes really struggled against the monogamy in his brain. He had a bit of a breakdown on me that revealed alot of his baggage that I hadn't really seen until then. But it resulted in good talks and he seems to be grasping the concept and working through his hangups.
I know, however, that this will not be an overnight thing and he will likely struggle more, but in the mean time, I feel fairly confident that he can manage himself while still getting my support in whatever lifestyle he wishes to maintain for himself.
All that being said, What would you say to a monogamous person walking into this life with a polyamorous partner?
However, he had a couple days this past week where hes really struggled against the monogamy in his brain. He had a bit of a breakdown on me that revealed alot of his baggage that I hadn't really seen until then. But it resulted in good talks and he seems to be grasping the concept and working through his hangups.
I know, however, that this will not be an overnight thing and he will likely struggle more, but in the mean time, I feel fairly confident that he can manage himself while still getting my support in whatever lifestyle he wishes to maintain for himself.
All that being said, What would you say to a monogamous person walking into this life with a polyamorous partner?