nycindie
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I think there was one member here who always had to have sex with her boyfriend in his truck, because both of them were married and could not bring a partner home nor have overnights. They loved each other, so they made it work.
This is true. A while back, I was unable to bring anyone to my place because I was painting and renovating (I'm single/solo, so usually can). Being in NYC, I was a little weirded out by the idea of an hourly motel, thinking they were sleazy, dirty places in the Times Square area, where street hookers bring their johns. Oddly enough, I found a couple on Yelp.com that had great reviews. We went to a very nice hourly hotel on my side of town, and I was quite impressed with its cleanliness. My date paid $75 for two hours and we had a great time. Also, I have read that some of the big hotel chains offer hourly rates during the daytime, when they are in between guests checking out and checking in. I think it's meant for business people who need a place to rest while traveling, or whatever, but yeah, these options do exist.
Not any most people would care to stay in!
You'd be surprised how many motels offer hourly rates and are not stereotypically sleazy. There is a huge market of people needing a place to have privacy and many of them are average people. I was surprised when I Googled "hourly rates" in my area.
This is true. A while back, I was unable to bring anyone to my place because I was painting and renovating (I'm single/solo, so usually can). Being in NYC, I was a little weirded out by the idea of an hourly motel, thinking they were sleazy, dirty places in the Times Square area, where street hookers bring their johns. Oddly enough, I found a couple on Yelp.com that had great reviews. We went to a very nice hourly hotel on my side of town, and I was quite impressed with its cleanliness. My date paid $75 for two hours and we had a great time. Also, I have read that some of the big hotel chains offer hourly rates during the daytime, when they are in between guests checking out and checking in. I think it's meant for business people who need a place to rest while traveling, or whatever, but yeah, these options do exist.
Money is one of those issues that a couple does need to discuss when opening up to dating other people. For example, you expect your dates to foot the bill to take you out, but what about hubby? Who pays for his dates if money is so tight? He can only date women who treat him? You two might need to look at your finances and figure out a dating budget so that both of you can at least go dutch. One thing I've found with online dating is that most everybody pays their way and one person treating is rare until a relationship is established. The guys on these dating sites tend not to like it when women expect to be treated all the time, and certainly most anyone, male or female, would not appreciate having to foot the bill every single time.Thanks. I thought about hotels but being that I don't have a lot of money I would expect the guy to foot the bill. However, not sure if that is practical on a somewhat regular basis.
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