Well my partners and I are all out, so it's more of a crapshoot as to who goes to what. Most of the time, they don't have the same interests, and as introverts, they're not exactly clamoring to go to a work function! Holidays and family get togethers, well, we host a lot, so all my partners are there. If DarkKnight's family has something, then I go with him, and if PunkRock's family has something, I go there too. The extended families have more or less accepted us as a unit, but we've not had any events where my other partner wanted to attend. They'd rather stay home and do anything else, honestly. Who wants to make small talk with people who are only tolerant of you? Not these guys.