vinsanity0
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Spork, it seems to be an almost universal thing among guys to fantasize about threesomes. I don"t know why. I have enjoyed a few myself, but it wore off for me.
Cat wanted a girlfriend to go out with and have occasional sex with. When she thought she found one (it ended up not working out) she mentioned that she might even be interested in a threesome. I told her it was fine if it didn"t happen and she should just concentrate on enjoying her relationship without feeling I had to be brought into it. I suspect she felt as you do, that I might be hurt if she didn't offer.
It sounds like Zen doesn't have a poly bone in his body. Cut him a little slack on his misconceptions...lol. I remember a time when I thought poly meant everyone lived in the same house together. Also, I think heterosexuals do place a lot of importance on body parts. I think it's hard not to project our preferences onto others. Having been heteroflexible in the past I get what you are saying. I think one would have to experience that to truly get it though.
Cat wanted a girlfriend to go out with and have occasional sex with. When she thought she found one (it ended up not working out) she mentioned that she might even be interested in a threesome. I told her it was fine if it didn"t happen and she should just concentrate on enjoying her relationship without feeling I had to be brought into it. I suspect she felt as you do, that I might be hurt if she didn't offer.
It sounds like Zen doesn't have a poly bone in his body. Cut him a little slack on his misconceptions...lol. I remember a time when I thought poly meant everyone lived in the same house together. Also, I think heterosexuals do place a lot of importance on body parts. I think it's hard not to project our preferences onto others. Having been heteroflexible in the past I get what you are saying. I think one would have to experience that to truly get it though.