Hunterawsome
New member
A quick synopsis of my situation is this: My first girlfriend I ever had and I broke up a while ago back at the end of highschool. We stayed friends through the years and have toed the line of dating again for a while and finally tried it recently. In that in between time I had other girlfriends and very meaningful relationships that ended at one point or another. Now, being her was very nice but there were just some points in our relationship that we each didn't fulfill for one another but we still deeply care about one another. What we've been thinking of is trying to have a polyamoros relationship. She is very ok with this and for the most part so am I. She is not a very sexual or intimate person and I crave a lot of attention and physical touch. The idea is that we love each other and want to be life partners while not holding each other back to find other relationships. We're both ok with branching out, spending time, or being sexual with others.
Now the problem is this: I'm worried that if I find a new partner who fulfills me emotionally and sexually that i would end up focusing on this new partner over her. I do not want to hurt her at all but I know that with a partner like I described I will focus a lot of my time on her.
With feelings like that would that just make my relationship with my current partner "good friends" and what advice do others in the community have for dealing with "new love" taking over and pushing out or masking over "old love"
Now the problem is this: I'm worried that if I find a new partner who fulfills me emotionally and sexually that i would end up focusing on this new partner over her. I do not want to hurt her at all but I know that with a partner like I described I will focus a lot of my time on her.
With feelings like that would that just make my relationship with my current partner "good friends" and what advice do others in the community have for dealing with "new love" taking over and pushing out or masking over "old love"