Hi, me and my husband are new to poly relationships.
We discussed it for almost a year before trying it. We finally agreed on a person ,or so I thought. My husband was obviously jealous and stuff got weird to put it lightly.
So we took a break from involving anyone else for a while so we could figure out what feels wrong about the first time... He said he needed the person to be someone he picked out and was fully comfortable with. So he picked a mutual friend. We built a relationship with said friend. We have a blast together..until my husband starts being weird . he shoots us angry glances, becomes very passive aggressive and controlling. He will do things like put our friends hand on my body , then later tell me I was ignoring him or I just want to have sex with everyone but him. Or he will make me have intercourse while our 3rd watches and not let me give attention. HELP IM ABOUT TO GO CRAZY. Also he worked late one night and me and our friend were waiting for him to come home. He sent me well over 100 messages in 2.5 hours....its like he's lost his mind.
We discussed it for almost a year before trying it. We finally agreed on a person ,or so I thought. My husband was obviously jealous and stuff got weird to put it lightly.
So we took a break from involving anyone else for a while so we could figure out what feels wrong about the first time... He said he needed the person to be someone he picked out and was fully comfortable with. So he picked a mutual friend. We built a relationship with said friend. We have a blast together..until my husband starts being weird . he shoots us angry glances, becomes very passive aggressive and controlling. He will do things like put our friends hand on my body , then later tell me I was ignoring him or I just want to have sex with everyone but him. Or he will make me have intercourse while our 3rd watches and not let me give attention. HELP IM ABOUT TO GO CRAZY. Also he worked late one night and me and our friend were waiting for him to come home. He sent me well over 100 messages in 2.5 hours....its like he's lost his mind.