anamikanon
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Don't recall if I posted here about it, but I tried finding someone on Tinder and it went pretty poorly. I found a few interesting people, but there was no spark and eventually I just got irritated and bored and etc and deleted my account.
Now I've signed up for OKC. The endless questions they ask about everything and the match % and comparisons of answers and match % across categories, etc is very useful for me to feel comfortable. At least I know going in what someone's views are on things that I consider important and if there is a mismatch on key issues, I can ignore them without wasting endless time finding things out and getting irritated over time wasted on unsuitable people.
So far, so good.
Matched with a couple of people, chatted with one extensively, and exchanged a few words with another two.
So far, nothing seems to be sparking on the romantic front, but at least I'm not irritated.
My problem is that I am a sapiosexual as well as demisexual (at least what I can make out from descriptions). There is no such thing as an immediate spark unless the person really stuns me with their perception on an issue that holds value to me. Or something.
I've never used dating apps before.
Interested in any advice anyone can share on how to survive the initial phase or improve chances of finding more princes than frogs.
Now I've signed up for OKC. The endless questions they ask about everything and the match % and comparisons of answers and match % across categories, etc is very useful for me to feel comfortable. At least I know going in what someone's views are on things that I consider important and if there is a mismatch on key issues, I can ignore them without wasting endless time finding things out and getting irritated over time wasted on unsuitable people.
So far, so good.
Matched with a couple of people, chatted with one extensively, and exchanged a few words with another two.
So far, nothing seems to be sparking on the romantic front, but at least I'm not irritated.
My problem is that I am a sapiosexual as well as demisexual (at least what I can make out from descriptions). There is no such thing as an immediate spark unless the person really stuns me with their perception on an issue that holds value to me. Or something.
I've never used dating apps before.
Interested in any advice anyone can share on how to survive the initial phase or improve chances of finding more princes than frogs.