Are you open poly or the poly-fi sort of person? (this is a biggy, so be honest and up front right away)
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So, why is identifying what poly means to you important? Some people have found poly through the love of one additional person. The multiple nature of this relationship is specific to include an individual and not out of pursuing a “way of loving”. This is a much more stable and adaptive situation for a mono in my opinion. Yes, they will be sharing their partner with another or perhaps established others, but they have a sense of calm and stability that monos crave like a single scoop of vanilla icecream!
In an open relationship (Poly with a chance of more balls….there’s a book and movie out..ohhh wait now, that’s not the title..my bad) the constant thought of when and who will be entering your life, and therefore their life, will be a damaging drain on most monos.
Hey, Mono. Thanks for this, both funny and thoughtful. I'm constantly enjoying this site, to come across very useful tidbits. The reminder of the different approaches between mono and poly-fi and open poly is a good one in thinking through my current situation, understanding some of the emotions here.
And we are way to hot to show our faces! You would be bowled over by our hotness, can't have that!
Actually Mono has an extensive album on his profile. Maybe if you ask him he will friend you on here?
And if you ever want to publish your words of wisdom, I'm sort of in the book business I could at least get you pointed in the right direction! Or at least buy a couple copies
Anyone can add their favorite threads to that Master Thread. Every so often, I go edit the links for neatness and category.
Just found this, so I'm bumping it. Not sure if it's linked in the master gem thread, but I quite enjoyed it.
Thank you, Mono.
You're welcome TP
I enjoyed your tongue-in-cheek
Wooahhh there Trucker Pete...I never once did that....errr wait now, you didn't say my tongue in your cheek.
hmm, that's too bad.
Quit that you two, makin' me blush!
pink cheeks
Just sounds dirtier the longer this continues..
So now I have stuck my tongue in Trucker Petes's pink cheeks?....wow, so much for being mono!