So my husband and I decided to be poly a while back.
Yesterday he decided he needed to tell me I cannot date first because it'll hurt his male ego mainly jealously and anger feelings (of course the day I wa gonna try and plan a date) and that I need to go through the emotions of him dating first.
Originally we had said we had to make sure the other was either on a date or had something to do but now it's an absolute "No" on me dating until
He does. Am I wrong in being mad and upset? I feel like he is trying to control his feelings by controlling my dating life.
How did married couples do when they first started dating others?
Yesterday he decided he needed to tell me I cannot date first because it'll hurt his male ego mainly jealously and anger feelings (of course the day I wa gonna try and plan a date) and that I need to go through the emotions of him dating first.
Originally we had said we had to make sure the other was either on a date or had something to do but now it's an absolute "No" on me dating until
He does. Am I wrong in being mad and upset? I feel like he is trying to control his feelings by controlling my dating life.
How did married couples do when they first started dating others?