"I would add that one can be empowered just as easily while doing it missionary style, as a matter of perspective. "
Agreed.
Missionary, ...blowjobs,..doesn`t matter. It`s all in the manner in which it is taken. Who instigates, who decides, who directs.
Either gender is capable of doing the 'fucking'.
I won`t go into specifics, because I don`t care to provide jerk-off material.
If my pussy is just a 'receptacle' to someone, then lets all look at our receptacles in the wall, and remind ourselves where the power comes from.
It sure isn`t from that cord leading out of the appliance.
Now,..that me being cheeky, regarding this one-way-street mentality. That mentality can drive some of us more aggressive, well-rounded types, bonkers.
I`m really not trying to go overboard on the feminism, of course men have power and control, and women can adore that. Nothing wrong with it,..It can be very sexy, very hot.
It`s always on the individuals involved. Thats what makes each coupling so unique and interesting.
Of course someone, somewhere, will be thinking, I`m just fooling myself, 'thinking' that control and power-fucking are mine.
For that type of person,..I feel sorry you haven`t got to experience the 'other side'.
and apologies,..I was spelling 'Magdalyn' wrong.