Oh I've never perused the personals at CL, so not familiar with the common "host" usage. I think it's to the point and has clear meaning.
Sleeping together as a term for sex is just wrong. Sex is active, sleeping is being checked out and resting.
Now, once I shared a beach cottage for a long weekend with 2 other couples and my ex h. We'd go to the beach in the morning, have picnics, come home in the afternoon, and all 3 couples would go "nap." Sure, maybe some slept, some fucked. It wasn't necessary to say, we are going off to fuck now, see ya!
But saying sleeping together as a common term for sex, it's just outmoded and sex-negative, I think.
Sleeping together as a term for sex is just wrong. Sex is active, sleeping is being checked out and resting.
Now, once I shared a beach cottage for a long weekend with 2 other couples and my ex h. We'd go to the beach in the morning, have picnics, come home in the afternoon, and all 3 couples would go "nap." Sure, maybe some slept, some fucked. It wasn't necessary to say, we are going off to fuck now, see ya!
But saying sleeping together as a common term for sex, it's just outmoded and sex-negative, I think.