Hi wildflowers!
Thank you very much. I think your suggestion is great.
I definitely don't want to pigeonhole any one or any relationship into a predetermined box. I have no idea what will happen in the future, so I'm trying to keep my mind (and heart) open to possibilities.
That's one thing I've tried to stress with my wife. It's not that I need her to "jump" in poly with both feet. I just need to know that my life-partner is open to growing and evolving. I don't need to reach a specific destination to be happy, (I am already happy on many fronts,) I just need to know we're making our mutual journey together, with full knowledge and honesty.
Sure, I have my romantic fantasy, but sometimes life gives us something better than the fantasy. Ok, maybe that's a little sappy, but that's how I feel.
Thank you very much. I think your suggestion is great.
I definitely don't want to pigeonhole any one or any relationship into a predetermined box. I have no idea what will happen in the future, so I'm trying to keep my mind (and heart) open to possibilities.
That's one thing I've tried to stress with my wife. It's not that I need her to "jump" in poly with both feet. I just need to know that my life-partner is open to growing and evolving. I don't need to reach a specific destination to be happy, (I am already happy on many fronts,) I just need to know we're making our mutual journey together, with full knowledge and honesty.
Sure, I have my romantic fantasy, but sometimes life gives us something better than the fantasy. Ok, maybe that's a little sappy, but that's how I feel.