Couple Seeking Male for Polyamory Exploration

Tiltawhirl

New member
I am new to this, so if I am posting something
inappropriate or posting something appropriate
but doing so inappropriately, please forgive me;
I know not what I do.

And while we're on the subject of not knowing
what I am doing, let's talk about what has brought
me here and why:

I am a heterosexual, married, sane, mature, intelligent,
healthy, laid-back, 46 year old male seeking to find
another heterosexual, married, sane, mature, intelligent,
healthy, laid-back male to engage in a quasi-polyamory
relationship with my heterosexual, sane, mature, intelligent,
healthy, laid-back, incredibly sexy, 46 year old wife.

To be worshiped by two men has been a lifelong fantasy of
hers, and because I love her and want her to be as happy
as she can, and for my own personal reasons as well, I want
very badly to help make that fantasy come true.

Are you the guy?

Would you be willing to be in almost daily contact (via
e-mail and/or Skype and/or IM and/or telephone) in
order to hold lively conversations about the minutia
of your and our lives?

Would you be open to flirting with, pursuing, wooing, complimenting,
praising, flattering, and enjoying the company of a vivacious,
sexy, fun and funny woman? And to be pursued, woo-ed, complimented,
praised, sought, desired, flirted with, flattered, and enjoyed
by same?

Would you like to be the focus of the attentions of the very
sexual creature she is?

Are you a good listener? Are you able to listen as she shares
things about herself? Would you also like to share who you are
with her?

Would you like a very good friend? Friendly intimacy is a must.
She wants to care about you, needs you to care about her as a
person, too. Would you like another male friend to do the same
with, as well?

Are you honest?

Do you like to have a good time? She loves to laugh, needs
someone who can laugh with her. I do, too. Are you open
to being part of three-person fun?

Are you loyal? She needs to know you have her back, because
she will fiercely guard yours. I will, too.

Are you dependable? She needs to be able to count on you, because
you can always count on her. I'm right there, too.

Are you thoughtful?

Are you compassionate? Are you able to be understanding when she
has had a bad day, be there for her if she needs you to be. She will
also be there for you, as will I.

Are you self confident but not arrogant or overbearing? She needs you
to be confident enough in your manhood to be in touch with your
feminine side without giving over to it entirely. No macho nonsense,
no pissing contests, no silly male pride.

Can you respect boundaries?

Are you trustworthy? She needs to be able to trust you with the
little things and with some of the bigger things, too. You can trust
us, which is something people you can't trust always say, so it is
something we are more than willing to prove over time.

Lastly, are you able to understand your role as a supplement
and not a primary partner? Is it ok with you that her marriage,
family, and professional life come first? Are you ok with being
a close friend with very special benefits, but not the love of her
life, though she will love you --and love you beautifully-- as a
friend?

"But what would I get in return," you might ask.

You would get the joy of being included as a delicious aspect of
a beautiful and vivacious woman's life. You would get to experience
her sexuality in a way special to her and in a way she would make
special to you. You would get the privilege of fulfilling a gorgeous
woman's lifelong fantasy. You would have the pleasure of being
involved in a from-afar relationship (sans financial and obligational
responsibilities; I would do all the heavy-lifting; you just get to be
there for the fun!), and, on occasion, if things go well, if we can all
get along and it's something we all want, a real life relationship
when we were to all three meet up somewhere and consummate
the relationship with her via happy and fun filled weekends in which
the two men in her life spend time making her feel wonderfully
worshiped while she, in turn, treats both of us to delights of her
own personality and physical attributes. :)

Is that you?

For more information (photos, etc), please post contact information
below.
 
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It would probably help if you mentioned your general location, unless you only seeking LD love....in that case I would then go over that.

It sounds as if you wife is lucky to have an accepting and understanding partner.

Good Luck!
 
For more information (photos, etc), please post contact information below.

Hello to any interested parties,
Just a friendly word of caution. I recommend that anyone who wants to contact the OP do so via PM (Private Message), rather than posting your contact info in this thread. This forum is not private and is searchable by all the search engines, so any personal details you post will be out there for anyone to see.

To send a PM, you can click on the OP's username and a drop-down list will appear with that option.
 
Oops

Thank you!

Again, sorry; this is all new to me.

We are located in the Southeastern US but are willing
to travel if the situation is right. We'll meet you half-way.

And, yes: PM is better than posting stuff in this thread
when it comes to contact info.

:)
 
I hope all goes well in your search. We have been in a 2 year relationship with a younger man that is part of our marriage in different ways. We may only get together for sex once or twice a month but he is in contact by chat or text to fill in the gaps. My wife and him are very much in love but the b/f situation is much different than our married love. We have built up the trust level where this V serves is no threat.
My hope and dream is to find either a female like what you describe your wife to be or to find a compatible couple that would wish to be "Married and Dating"I had a relationship earlier in the year until the female came to the realization that she was not as poly as she pretended to be and wanted a mono relationship and I had no problem knowing it was over because I am poly and very much in love with my wife.
Maybe more info that you want to read but letting you know some of these searches may take some time, no matter how awesome you and your wife are. If we were swingers it would just be about the sex but this is about more than that.
Good Luck
 
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