Hi y'all
I don't know where to start and I'm new here, so please apologize if the story is a bit confusing or some therms are missing. I'll try to keep it as short as possible too.
So, I've been with my gf for 8 years now. I've always known that she was bi-curious, and I hate to admit that's one of the reasons I got into her in the first place. For the sake of keeping it short, we talked a lot about FFM threesomes and we did it for the first time 6 years into our relationship. After that we only had one other experience last month and it was really bad (no jealously or anything, the third person just didn't "click" with us)
The Polyamory part the day before yesterday, in our third try. We went on a day with a girl we met on tinder and things were amazing. We didn't even do anything, but it just felt like a "regular" two person date (sorry if that sounds offensive to anyone, but that's the only standard I have to compare it). Everyone was into everyone and yesterday we had sex, and things clicked even more.
So I'm now in a confusing, thrilling situation, because my gf really liked the girl, but she's kinda of holding off because she's scared that everyone fall in love with everyone. It's hard do describe, she's even scared that she falls in love with the girl. I wouldn't have a problem with that at all and I'm subtly assuring her that it's fine. She doesn't know about polyamory any more than I know, we kinda just heard about it a few times, but never ever considered it because we really fulfill each other. But we never expected that another girl would fit in with us so well, be it on the bed or out of it.
I'm not sure if I'm posing a question here or just wanted to vent with people that would understand that feeling. There's no problem with anything apparently. The three parts are liking each other equally (except obviously me and my gf share a stronger bond). The only minor problem is that my gf would be reluctant at first, but I talk to her a lot and she'd eventually be in peace with herself.
So... yeah, I don't know. Any opinions and tips are welcome
I don't know where to start and I'm new here, so please apologize if the story is a bit confusing or some therms are missing. I'll try to keep it as short as possible too.
So, I've been with my gf for 8 years now. I've always known that she was bi-curious, and I hate to admit that's one of the reasons I got into her in the first place. For the sake of keeping it short, we talked a lot about FFM threesomes and we did it for the first time 6 years into our relationship. After that we only had one other experience last month and it was really bad (no jealously or anything, the third person just didn't "click" with us)
The Polyamory part the day before yesterday, in our third try. We went on a day with a girl we met on tinder and things were amazing. We didn't even do anything, but it just felt like a "regular" two person date (sorry if that sounds offensive to anyone, but that's the only standard I have to compare it). Everyone was into everyone and yesterday we had sex, and things clicked even more.
So I'm now in a confusing, thrilling situation, because my gf really liked the girl, but she's kinda of holding off because she's scared that everyone fall in love with everyone. It's hard do describe, she's even scared that she falls in love with the girl. I wouldn't have a problem with that at all and I'm subtly assuring her that it's fine. She doesn't know about polyamory any more than I know, we kinda just heard about it a few times, but never ever considered it because we really fulfill each other. But we never expected that another girl would fit in with us so well, be it on the bed or out of it.
I'm not sure if I'm posing a question here or just wanted to vent with people that would understand that feeling. There's no problem with anything apparently. The three parts are liking each other equally (except obviously me and my gf share a stronger bond). The only minor problem is that my gf would be reluctant at first, but I talk to her a lot and she'd eventually be in peace with herself.
So... yeah, I don't know. Any opinions and tips are welcome