Thanks for the most recent advice. Things have really settled for me and day to day normalacy has turned into a wonderful lifestyle for the three of us. Today I'm fighting off some old negative patterns and I just need a little help. I have noticed in the last couple of weeks what our relationships look like and my wifes NRE had subsided. My wifes energy with him is different than ours which makes sense I know they're two different relationships. However, there are things they do that her and I don't but could and that makes me question why we don't. For example, my wife and I have separate blankets in bed and we sometimes cuddle in the night, but she and him share one blanket between the two of them and cuddle all night long in that intimate way. They cuddle on the couch more snugly and intimately than her and I do, they kind of wrap themselves up in each other. Her and I cuddle yes but not the same way, there's just seems more loving and intimate. Is this okay? When these things bring me down I try to remember something she told me which was that she loves our everyday marriage it is secure and regular. That is what she wants from me. That is what I want too, but there relationship sometimes looks more close more romantic and that makes my mind run. I think I don't need to worry on this, my wife has reassured me in so many organic ways that our relationship is strong and secure. I just want to know if there are any red flags here or if I'm just over thinking again.
O Thanks guys you're such a strong support.
O Thanks guys you're such a strong support.