Polytechnical
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Hi guys - I’ve just got to question why I keep falling down the same rabbit hole. I’m 46 and divorced and have quite a history of being attracted to attached men. I don’t go looking for them, but they certainly find me.
I have been the OW to two men. One of whom cheated with me in two consecutive relationship. The second time round he was dabbling with being poly. In the end he chose to keep the relationship closed and ghosted me after 2 years (that hurt) but in total we’d been off and on for 11 years.
So anyway,it’s taken a couple of years to get brave enough to even look again. This week I met a guy who is in an open relationship. He’s not poly, he’s very clear about that.
So my question is, as another partner, am I just a booty call or is it ok for me to make requests? What are the rule as the OP?
It’s early enough to get out if it’s bootycall central, I don’t want that. But I’m also not looking for hearts and flowers either.
Any help would be gratefully recieved. :0)
I have been the OW to two men. One of whom cheated with me in two consecutive relationship. The second time round he was dabbling with being poly. In the end he chose to keep the relationship closed and ghosted me after 2 years (that hurt) but in total we’d been off and on for 11 years.
So anyway,it’s taken a couple of years to get brave enough to even look again. This week I met a guy who is in an open relationship. He’s not poly, he’s very clear about that.
So my question is, as another partner, am I just a booty call or is it ok for me to make requests? What are the rule as the OP?
It’s early enough to get out if it’s bootycall central, I don’t want that. But I’m also not looking for hearts and flowers either.
Any help would be gratefully recieved. :0)