PolyCuriousTwo
New member
Hello all!
As my wife and I journey through a new phase in our chapter together, we thought it woud be nice to have an open minded community to discuss what we need and offer advice when we can.
My wife was walked into the life by a couple friend of ours. While a new experience for both of us, I find I was made for this new style of relationship. Not being particularly jealous and also naturally open regarding jealousy, emotions, and insecurities made the transition much easier.
My wife practiced a conservative lifestyle most of her adult life, until meeting me and opening up regarding travel, life choices, and societal norms in general. She always had a sepcific interest in poly relationships but would normally guise this interest with jokes, passing comments, and general comedy. However she was also extremely jealous at times, presenting a serious conflict with me regarding how to broach the subject.
Eventually we met a couple in an open relationship, who was seeking a poly quad.
They assisted, with little to no help from me, in showing my wife how thier relationship worked, stayed healthy, and was a positive for both of them.
We are newbies to poly, however I found this seems more natural than a standard diad for me. Regardless of my comfort with the situation, I understad as we progress I will need to continue to grow into our new relationship and that obstacles will arise.
I look forward to being a contributing member in this community but I imagine there are times I will need advice and guidance as well. I look forward to a group of friends here in the forum!
Thanks for reading (not sure if wifey will make her own account our just take mine over, lol)
As my wife and I journey through a new phase in our chapter together, we thought it woud be nice to have an open minded community to discuss what we need and offer advice when we can.
My wife was walked into the life by a couple friend of ours. While a new experience for both of us, I find I was made for this new style of relationship. Not being particularly jealous and also naturally open regarding jealousy, emotions, and insecurities made the transition much easier.
My wife practiced a conservative lifestyle most of her adult life, until meeting me and opening up regarding travel, life choices, and societal norms in general. She always had a sepcific interest in poly relationships but would normally guise this interest with jokes, passing comments, and general comedy. However she was also extremely jealous at times, presenting a serious conflict with me regarding how to broach the subject.
Eventually we met a couple in an open relationship, who was seeking a poly quad.
They assisted, with little to no help from me, in showing my wife how thier relationship worked, stayed healthy, and was a positive for both of them.
We are newbies to poly, however I found this seems more natural than a standard diad for me. Regardless of my comfort with the situation, I understad as we progress I will need to continue to grow into our new relationship and that obstacles will arise.
I look forward to being a contributing member in this community but I imagine there are times I will need advice and guidance as well. I look forward to a group of friends here in the forum!
Thanks for reading (not sure if wifey will make her own account our just take mine over, lol)