Sun80's Intro from his perspective

Sun80Moon88

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My life story started back when I was 5 years old. My family was poor and we all lived in a single room - all 7 of us. One night I overheard my father and my mother becoming intimate, I saw this over and over again without realizing what I was actually observing. I thought of this as some type of game, and I wanted to play this game with other girls I knew in my neighborhood. When I finally become old enough, maybe 10 years old, my aunt saw me with another girl and she came in a scolded me and told be how it was Haram and God would be displeased with me. She then threaten to tell my mother and father if she ever saw me like that with a girl again. I was clever or naughty, and would still find these girls around my age who would like to play this 'game', but only this time I would fasten sheets to the ceiling to conceal us. We also had a field near the house and this field would overgrow and could also hide us. I would take with me a sheet and some can foods and play house with them (I had many small girlfriends aged 10-12) I was 12 and I would reenact adult life how I saw my mother and father doing. I would 'go to work' we do dishes and 'sleep'. Some years passed and the girls started to develop and become more timid to play, and once I became 15 years old I knew what it was I was really doing! I started to speak with the older guys, maybe 17-18, and I could even buy adult magazines (something that was as rear as diamonds in the street, and I hid them very well) from them and they even taught me how to masturbate, which I thought was the best thing EVER! During this time we finally were able to afford a real house where I was able to have my own room, and I had a tv too! I would watch TV ( we only had 3 channels) but I bought some VHS films of porn, and really jumped in learning what I liked and knew about sex. ( hardly ever slept on Saturdays nights due to this habit). These men who I bought the magazines and VHS from told me to follow them to the center of the capital and there we would be able to see some beautiful women. When I went to this place, I saw women without tops walking around in their undergarments and this was my very first time my eyes laid upon such open sexual content and real women. So, I decided that I would try my luck and talk to them, but none where interested in such a young boy of 16. After summer vacation we had friend of family come to town with her daughter to stay with us while she had to make appointments at the local hospital. I was now 17 and the daughter of this woman was older than me by a bit, she was 23 at the time. This young woman was very smart, and my father requested that she tutor me since I stopped attending school the year prior. She agreed and we had our lessons in my room. I had a lot of respect for her, and in no way was trying to be naughty, and she appreciated my strong desire to learn. She was strict and a tough teacher, but ultimately I was successful and my father was happy with my progress too. I spent many hours locked in my room with her over those 15 days. She would kiss my cheek when I got something right, and roughed my hair up when I slacked off. When we finished a particularly hard lesson she and I, along with my sisters, went to the beach as a treat. We would have to take turns watching the clothes while the rest went swimming, I was often that person, but one time she and my sisters came back from swimming and insisted that she and I go swimming while my sisters watched our stuff - nothing was alarming since one of my sisters could have came along, but declined since she was tired. She and I were now in the water, and she told me would help me to swim. She placed my hand upon her chest and whispered in my ear " I found your magazines and dirty films, I took a photo from there, so you better be good or I'll tell your parents." I was scared, but in a happy/nervous way. Before we would often do exercise together, but now she gave be a ton, and when I finished well she started kissing me and offered a great gift if I got 100%. That is when I started to get more comfortable with her. My father was very happy with my progress, and he had no clue or idea that she was slowly working to corrupt me. Her mother had the operation a few days later, and she and my parents would go and visit her with food and spend a lot of time there. Finally her mother was well enough to come and stay at our house. Around this time they started to pack and get ready to leave to go back to there home many hours away. That night she gave me my final lesson, my father popped his head in and gave thanks to her and her hard work teaching me these past few weeks, and reminded her that she needed to get her rest for the big day to follow. She told him not to worry and that since this would be the final lesson she had a lot to cover, and it wasn't a problem for her to stay up and make sure she did her best in teaching me. We made a lot of eye contact that night and she left to grab a very cold bottle of water that night a bit after midnight. She got back into the room and locked the door behind her, and said " All of your family and mother are fast asleep, so make sure you don't make a lot of noise." She gave me a choice - 30 more minutes of school, or to finally receive this gift she spoke of before, but in that case I mustn't ever tell my family what she has given me. Of course I choose the gift, and imagined this will finally be my first time, and I was really excited and had no idea she was so naughty. She asked how much I knew, and I told her just the basics and to please guide me. She kissed me and held me close, my natural instincts kicked in and I was at her neck and breast. She went for my member and placed it in her mouth, but I was nervous of finishing too soon, so I asked if I could have her pussy, but she denied me! Being Arabic she strictly couldn't give up her virginity, but rubbing and kissing was fine. I choose to kiss her down under and rub myself against her. I finally finished and she left the next day to never return. Some time later, and I still haven't really did the deed. I was now 18 and I decided to buy a prostitute! It wasn't at all like I imagined, she was all business and didn't what to spent a second longer and no kissing or breast play. Get in and get out - very disappointing. I was never able to really to get into a relationship here as the mentality was always marriage and never to get physical before hand. My urges were offset by me buying time with the prostitutes and before I knew it I was 26 - in a stable job. I started to get into a relationship with a woman who was 18 years my senior and she seduced me and because we had sex, she pressed hard for marriage. We wed only after 6 months. She being 42 at the time and her first time ever having sex -despite being married before to a man with ED. We were married 7 years and we never were able to conceive and our sex life was disintegrating quickly. I witnessed some documentaries and movies via TV or the internet that depicted alternative lifestyles. I was fascinated and enamored with seeing how these other people had such enriching relationships and a wide breath of sexual experiences. My eyes were opened for the first time to people who I wanted to be like, but my wife was completely apposed. Nothing I could say or do to allow myself to even be heard in front of her. Eventually this marriage ended do to a lack of respect I felt and how she treated others very poorly. We got a divorce and I cut all ties and left with the clothes on my back and a backpack worth of stuff. Only after a few months I met my current wife. She shows me everyday almost all the time what real love is. She is my gift from above to show me what real love can be like. We dated for 6 months before moving in together. This is a big deal, because in my country is it illegal for non-married individuals to live together. We moved into together with her father's blessing and after a year living together and almost 2 years being together did we finally open up to each other. It was scary and I continually thought about how people of my own background hated these ideas I had, and how my last wife detested me for even bringing them up. I didn't have to worry though. Moon88 told me about her many experiences and how her favorite relationships were often with other women! I couldn't believe my ears at the time. She is opening up herself and telling be what it means to be bisexual and how she was in a mono relationship with another women who also had a bf. It was the sort of stories I stumbled upon before but didn't know what to call them. I confided in her my desires and dreams, and she didn't block my speech or turn away, but encouraged me to be true to myself and what I want. Slowly I became more embolden about what I wanted to try and how we could share experiences together. I was so happy I found someone I could grow with and would support me as much as I would support her. We finally became husband and wife after 2.5 years of being together and still live in N.Africa, but since she is American, and we want the best environment possible - I want to move to the States with her when I am granted a spousal visa. She found this forum and has been translating everything for me as my English still needs improvement.

So, now you know more about me and my background. I realize that this is a long intro, but I felt it is important to tell. Ideally I would love to meet other couples like myself and Moon88, or individuals who can show us or teach us what we should now about trying to open up to a poly life, or quad, or anything else we need to know.

Sun80

P.S.

I, Moon88, translated all of this while Sun80 was beside me. I realize this isn't what a lot of people write in their introductions, but Sun80 wanted to tell his story, so I agreed to type it out for him.
 
Moon, would you consider adding paragraphs to long block of texts? It is very hard to read with no breaks at all.
 
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Moon, would you consider adding paragraphs to long block of texts? It is very hard to read with no breaks ad all.

Of course you are right Tinwen, and that a completely reasonable request. I'm not sure how to edit post, but I'll just place the broken up - easier to read version below. Sun80 kept me up really late making the translations sentence by sentence and I was too lazy to do it right the first time. I honestly didn't know he wanted to get so detailed.:eek:

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My life story started back when I was 5 years old. My family was poor and we all lived in a single room - all 7 of us. One night I overheard my father and my mother becoming intimate, I saw this over and over again without realizing what I was actually observing. I thought of this as some type of game, and I wanted to play this game with other girls I knew in my neighborhood.

When I finally become old enough, maybe 10 years old, my aunt saw me with another girl and she came in a scolded me and told be how it was Haram and God would be displeased with me. She then threaten to tell my mother and father if she ever saw me like that with a girl again. I was clever or naughty, and would still find these girls around my age who would like to play this 'game', but only this time I would fasten sheets to the ceiling to conceal us. We also had a field near the house and this field would overgrow and could also hide us. I would take with me a sheet and some can foods and play house with them (I had many small girlfriends aged 10-12) I was 12 and I would reenact adult life how I saw my mother and father doing. I would 'go to work' we do dishes and 'sleep'. Some years passed and the girls started to develop and become more timid to play, and once I became 15 years old I knew what it was I was really doing!

I started to speak with the older guys, maybe 17-18, and I could even buy adult magazines (something that was as rear as diamonds in the street, and I hid them very well) from them and they even taught me how to masturbate, which I thought was the best thing EVER! During this time we finally were able to afford a real house where I was able to have my own room, and I had a tv too! I would watch TV ( we only had 3 channels) but I bought some VHS films of porn, and really jumped in learning what I liked and knew about sex. ( hardly ever slept on Saturdays nights due to this habit). These men who I bought the magazines and VHS from told me to follow them to the center of the capital and there we would be able to see some beautiful women. When I went to this place, I saw women without tops walking around in their undergarments and this was my very first time my eyes laid upon such open sexual content and real women. So, I decided that I would try my luck and talk to them, but none where interested in such a young boy of 16.

After summer vacation we had friend of family come to town with her daughter to stay with us while she had to make appointments at the local hospital. I was now 17 and the daughter of this woman was older than me by a bit, she was 23 at the time. This young woman was very smart, and my father requested that she tutor me since I stopped attending school the year prior. She agreed and we had our lessons in my room. I had a lot of respect for her, and in no way was trying to be naughty, and she appreciated my strong desire to learn.
She was strict and a tough teacher, but ultimately I was successful and my father was happy with my progress too. I spent many hours locked in my room with her over those 15 days. She would kiss my cheek when I got something right, and roughed my hair up when I slacked off. When we finished a particularly hard lesson she and I, along with my sisters, went to the beach as a treat. We would have to take turns watching the clothes while the rest went swimming, I was often that person, but one time she and my sisters came back from swimming and insisted that she and I go swimming while my sisters watched our stuff - nothing was alarming since one of my sisters could have came along, but declined since she was tired. She and I were now in the water, and she told me would help me to swim. She placed my hand upon her chest and whispered in my ear " I found your magazines and dirty films, I took a photo from there, so you better be good or I'll tell your parents." I was scared, but in a happy/nervous way. Before we would often do exercise together, but now she gave be a ton, and when I finished well she started kissing me and offered a great gift if I got 100%. That is when I started to get more comfortable with her.
My father was very happy with my progress, and he had no clue or idea that she was slowly working to corrupt me. Her mother had the operation a few days later, and she and my parents would go and visit her with food and spend a lot of time there. Finally her mother was well enough to come and stay at our house. Around this time they started to pack and get ready to leave to go back to there home many hours away. That night she gave me my final lesson, my father popped his head in and gave thanks to her and her hard work teaching me these past few weeks, and reminded her that she needed to get her rest for the big day to follow. She told him not to worry and that since this would be the final lesson she had a lot to cover, and it wasn't a problem for her to stay up and make sure she did her best in teaching me.
We made a lot of eye contact that night and she left to grab a very cold bottle of water that night a bit after midnight. She got back into the room and locked the door behind her, and said " All of your family and mother are fast asleep, so make sure you don't make a lot of noise." She gave me a choice - 30 more minutes of school, or to finally receive this gift she spoke of before, but in that case I mustn't ever tell my family what she has given me. Of course I choose the gift, and imagined this will finally be my first time, and I was really excited and had no idea she was so naughty. She asked how much I knew, and I told her just the basics and to please guide me. She kissed me and held me close, my natural instincts kicked in and I was at her neck and breast. She went for my member and placed it in her mouth, but I was nervous of finishing too soon, so I asked if I could have her pussy, but she denied me! Being Arabic she strictly couldn't give up her virginity, but rubbing and kissing was fine. I choose to kiss her down under and rub myself against her. I finally finished and she left the next day to never return. Some time later, and I still haven't really did the deed.

I was now 18 and I decided to buy a prostitute! It wasn't at all like I imagined, she was all business and didn't what to spent a second longer and no kissing or breast play. Get in and get out - very disappointing. I was never able to really to get into a relationship here as the mentality was always marriage and never to get physical before hand. My urges were offset by me buying time with the prostitutes and before I knew it I was 26 - in a stable job.

I started to get into a relationship with a woman who was 18 years my senior and she seduced me and because we had sex, she pressed hard for marriage. We wed only after 6 months. She being 42 at the time and her first time ever having sex -despite being married before to a man with ED. We were married 7 years and we never were able to conceive and our sex life was disintegrating quickly. I witnessed some documentaries and movies via TV or the internet that depicted alternative lifestyles. I was fascinated and enamored with seeing how these other people had such enriching relationships and a wide breath of sexual experiences. My eyes were opened for the first time to people who I wanted to be like, but my wife was completely apposed. Nothing I could say or do to allow myself to even be heard in front of her. Eventually this marriage ended do to a lack of respect I felt and how she treated others very poorly. We got a divorce and I cut all ties and left with the clothes on my back and a backpack worth of stuff.

Only after a few months I met my current wife. She shows me everyday almost all the time what real love is. She is my gift from above to show me what real love can be like. We dated for 6 months before moving in together. This is a big deal, because in my country is it illegal for non-married individuals to live together. We moved into together with her father's blessing and after a year living together and almost 2 years being together did we finally open up to each other.
It was scary and I continually thought about how people of my own background hated these ideas I had, and how my last wife detested me for even bringing them up. I didn't have to worry though. Moon88 told me about her many experiences and how her favorite relationships were often with other women! I couldn't believe my ears at the time. She is opening up herself and telling be what it means to be bisexual and how she was in a mono relationship with another women who also had a bf. It was the sort of stories I stumbled upon before but didn't know what to call them. I confided in her my desires and dreams, and she didn't block my speech or turn away, but encouraged me to be true to myself and what I want. Slowly I became more embolden about what I wanted to try and how we could share experiences together.

I am so happy I found someone I could grow with and would support me as much as I would support her. We finally became husband and wife after 2.5 years of being together and still live in N.Africa, but since she is American, and we want the best environment possible - I want to move to the States with her when I am granted a spousal visa. She found this forum and has been translating everything for me as my English still needs improvement.
 
Only after a few months I met my current wife. She shows me everyday almost all the time what real love is. She is my gift from above to show me what real love can be like. We dated for 6 months before moving in together. This is a big deal, because in my country is it illegal for non-married individuals to live together. We moved into together with her father's blessing and after a year living together and almost 2 years being together did we finally open up to each other.
It was scary and I continually thought about how people of my own background hated these ideas I had, and how my last wife detested me for even bringing them up. I didn't have to worry though. Moon88 told me about her many experiences and how her favorite relationships were often with other women! I couldn't believe my ears at the time. She is opening up herself and telling be what it means to be bisexual and how she was in a mono relationship with another women who also had a bf. It was the sort of stories I stumbled upon before but didn't know what to call them. I confided in her my desires and dreams, and she didn't block my speech or turn away, but encouraged me to be true to myself and what I want. Slowly I became more embolden about what I wanted to try and how we could share experiences together.
This is beautiful. Beautiful story and beautiful wording :)
 
Greetings Sun80 (and Moon88),
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It sounds like you have lived an adventurous life. Hopefully polyamory will be your best adventure yet. Keep a low profile until you can travel to America, I wouldn't want you to get jailed for your beliefs. In the meantime Polyamory.com is here for you. Let us know if you have any questions.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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