As I was writing a response to a serious topic, I thought of a funny incident that if we weren't poly, would not have happened.
In the beginning we agreed that it was ok to talk to others online, especially with the possibility of sex. Actually before we realized we were poly. We became frustrated in being able to actually get to together with the person. D (wife) had been talking to a nice guy. We decided that work kept us from doing anything. So she met him, they hit it off and did it. She was so wet and horny when she got home, I had to send him a thank you email. So after all three of us email and text, he comes down for a motorcycle run. He is also a cop, but grew up in the city and the back woods were not his place. After the run we went to our home and to the bedroom, D took him first, as he was nervous. I guess I scared him.
After I came in and he went soft...... I left and he got hard... I went back in and soft again... Poor guy was like.. I will leave. I said I am going to watch TV... have fun, he left and well it was worth it.
Another time he came down for his first Swinger Party, on the way the hostess called and asked if we could get some wine coolers. We stopped at a Redneck bar and he and I walked in...in a gay voice as loudly asked if they had wine coolers? He looked like a deer int he headlights... we made it out safely
In the beginning we agreed that it was ok to talk to others online, especially with the possibility of sex. Actually before we realized we were poly. We became frustrated in being able to actually get to together with the person. D (wife) had been talking to a nice guy. We decided that work kept us from doing anything. So she met him, they hit it off and did it. She was so wet and horny when she got home, I had to send him a thank you email. So after all three of us email and text, he comes down for a motorcycle run. He is also a cop, but grew up in the city and the back woods were not his place. After the run we went to our home and to the bedroom, D took him first, as he was nervous. I guess I scared him.
After I came in and he went soft...... I left and he got hard... I went back in and soft again... Poor guy was like.. I will leave. I said I am going to watch TV... have fun, he left and well it was worth it.
Another time he came down for his first Swinger Party, on the way the hostess called and asked if we could get some wine coolers. We stopped at a Redneck bar and he and I walked in...in a gay voice as loudly asked if they had wine coolers? He looked like a deer int he headlights... we made it out safely