cheribird44
New member
Hi everyone! Sorry for the long story.
I'm not sure how to start this, so I'm just going to lay out my situation and see what you all think.
I've been in the open relationship role for about 10 years. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 1 / 2 years, he has never been in an open relationship until me. We have a great relationship with amazing sex, so neither of us have had the urge to sleep with anyone else.
Recently, we've been talking about trying a threesome with another woman. The idea of another woman excites me, but I've never been with another woman, so I don't know if it's fantasy vs reality. I don't even know what to look for or how to go about it.
We've also been reading alot about polyamory. We both like the idea, but are afraid other people would take away from our relationship. As well as finding a person that clicks with us.
I guess I'm just looking for some kind of guidance. Benefits and downsides of poly, from people that have been there. First time with a woman advice. I dont want to make anyone uncomfortable. How to go about looking for someone, and what I'd be looking for. (We live in a small town). Any thoughts or advice, please.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
I'm not sure how to start this, so I'm just going to lay out my situation and see what you all think.
I've been in the open relationship role for about 10 years. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 1 / 2 years, he has never been in an open relationship until me. We have a great relationship with amazing sex, so neither of us have had the urge to sleep with anyone else.
Recently, we've been talking about trying a threesome with another woman. The idea of another woman excites me, but I've never been with another woman, so I don't know if it's fantasy vs reality. I don't even know what to look for or how to go about it.
We've also been reading alot about polyamory. We both like the idea, but are afraid other people would take away from our relationship. As well as finding a person that clicks with us.
I guess I'm just looking for some kind of guidance. Benefits and downsides of poly, from people that have been there. First time with a woman advice. I dont want to make anyone uncomfortable. How to go about looking for someone, and what I'd be looking for. (We live in a small town). Any thoughts or advice, please.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.