kizmet74
New member
Hey y'all. I stumbled upon this forum looking for information about polyamory and groups that offer advice an support.
My husband and I had discussed threesomes a year or so into our relationship. We later found someone to fulfill some of our kinks. What started out as a threesome turned into a polyamorous cohabitation relationship.
We have had our ups and downs. But what relationship doesn't? My husband learned bringing someone else into the bedroom to fix a relationship doesn't work. My boyfriend learned cheating can cost a lot. And I learned second chances can be worthwhile. But after years of reevaluating, reforming, and stabilizing, we are again a happy family.
As others had posted, I too felt like I was just being greedy at first. I didn't feel it was fair to either of them that I had both of them. Now that communication has been greatly improved, I have been informed neither of them cares. They are both happy just to have me. I am perfectly fine with either or both of them finding someone else if they so choose. Just as long as they are honest and upfront about it.
So to anyone considering a poly lifestyle, it can be the worst thing, or it can be the best. Just be honest with everyone involved, especially yourself.
My husband and I had discussed threesomes a year or so into our relationship. We later found someone to fulfill some of our kinks. What started out as a threesome turned into a polyamorous cohabitation relationship.
We have had our ups and downs. But what relationship doesn't? My husband learned bringing someone else into the bedroom to fix a relationship doesn't work. My boyfriend learned cheating can cost a lot. And I learned second chances can be worthwhile. But after years of reevaluating, reforming, and stabilizing, we are again a happy family.
As others had posted, I too felt like I was just being greedy at first. I didn't feel it was fair to either of them that I had both of them. Now that communication has been greatly improved, I have been informed neither of them cares. They are both happy just to have me. I am perfectly fine with either or both of them finding someone else if they so choose. Just as long as they are honest and upfront about it.
So to anyone considering a poly lifestyle, it can be the worst thing, or it can be the best. Just be honest with everyone involved, especially yourself.