Hi, my wife and I decided to experiment with a poly lifestyle. We have been very happily married for 9 years. Right now I am in San Diego and she is in Colorado. She will be coming home in a couple of months. Until then we are in a kinda open relationship. She is very trustworthy and is not pursuing anyone at the moment. She wants me to find us a girlfriend out here for a closed relationship. I'm a pretty shy fella and it was hard enough to meet her 9 years ago. It's kinda like I'm single again lol. She is adamantly insisting that I go out and meet girls for hook ups to get more sexual experience so that I'm not too awkward when we are meeting poly women. I guess I'm hoping to find single poly women in the San Diego area that I can meet up with and date. Clearly there doesn't have to be any sex involved but I'd like to meet and discuss this lifestyle. Maybe even find that right person, we are all for making new friends in our adventure if nothing else. Otherwise I am willing to discuss a poly lifestyle online. Not really sure. Lol Thank you for your time.