saltedpaper
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I believe every set of lovers is able to make their own rules/guidelines everyone in the group must adhere to them.
I wonder what people think of this situation. Two lovers (L and C) each have one other lover (L + Q, and C + J). Q and J are monogamous. L often has sex with C and Q in the same day. C just learned of this and is uncomfortable.
All four are now working on the guidelines for questions like should someone have sex with both their lovers in the same day. How much time should pass between lovers? What sort of bathing/cleaning should they do between partners? Do they have an obligation to tell both lovers about it.
Does anyone have similar experiences? Anything that's worked well, not worked well?
I wonder what people think of this situation. Two lovers (L and C) each have one other lover (L + Q, and C + J). Q and J are monogamous. L often has sex with C and Q in the same day. C just learned of this and is uncomfortable.
All four are now working on the guidelines for questions like should someone have sex with both their lovers in the same day. How much time should pass between lovers? What sort of bathing/cleaning should they do between partners? Do they have an obligation to tell both lovers about it.
Does anyone have similar experiences? Anything that's worked well, not worked well?