Ofgreenink
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So I suppose this post is a way to in a sense learn a bit more about poly dating. In doing some research I found what we were think was something called unicorn hunting. So as an effort to not do this I'm making this post and asking for a bit more advice.
So this comes down to my girlfriend, who is bisexual, and my self, who is straight, are looking to add a third to our relationship. I came to learn already that we should keep our expectations and rules to be more open so as not to force our prospective partner into a box.
We also understand that opening our relationship comes with a host of risks but feel that it is still worth it. And we both feel we would like a
Poly-fi relationship (and mutually exclusive relationship if my terms are incorrect)
I suppose what I'm asking is what the best way to avoid being "that guy". In a poly relationship.
So this comes down to my girlfriend, who is bisexual, and my self, who is straight, are looking to add a third to our relationship. I came to learn already that we should keep our expectations and rules to be more open so as not to force our prospective partner into a box.
We also understand that opening our relationship comes with a host of risks but feel that it is still worth it. And we both feel we would like a
Poly-fi relationship (and mutually exclusive relationship if my terms are incorrect)
I suppose what I'm asking is what the best way to avoid being "that guy". In a poly relationship.