PurpleSun
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Thanks for the replies guys. UPDATE: I talked to my therapist. She addressed the question of "Do you REALLY want to break up, or do you want to maybe work on communication and see if it works?" After talking through an hour long session, I came to the conclusion that I want to work through the communication issues. This relationship started at the end of the semester, and admittedly in a not so healthy fashion. But I do like her. And I think she can come around to adapting and accepting that I am poly. She has even agreed to come to therapy with me, and I've agreed to go see her therapist with her. Sometimes, it's a communication issue, and things seem way bigger than they are. All relationships have issues - especially when they involve people who have well, issues of their own. But I don't want to throw something away, something that has the potential to be good, because we got started off on the wrong foot. We'll see what happens, and I am willing to keep anyone interested updated. I am feeling much better now.