Hi all
He aha te mea nui o te ao?
He tangata! He tangata! He tangata!
(what is the most important thing in the world? It is people! it is people! it is people! - Maori Proverb).
I'm a cis female predominantly hetero married childfree 37y/o. Currently LDR and DADT. Any lovers I spend time with have been such for many years and I met my husband 3 years ago. As we were getting to know each other, I explained to him about these friends, whom I love emotionally and, at times, physically, so the DADT is about specifics. Everyone lives in different cities these days so visits are infrequent. Most of these friends-lovers also have their own relationships. Some are no longer fully sexual relationships, but to me, my ident as poly is about love.
I am also in the process of learning about the energetic body and how to actually consciously harness that energy for pleasure and connection (think Chakras, Kundalini and Tantra, but not quite because I'm not using Eastern teachings, but those are the words that most people know.)
So, as I said to my now husband as I was getting to know him, I don't have hobbies, I have people.
kia kaha
Evie
He aha te mea nui o te ao?
He tangata! He tangata! He tangata!
(what is the most important thing in the world? It is people! it is people! it is people! - Maori Proverb).
I'm a cis female predominantly hetero married childfree 37y/o. Currently LDR and DADT. Any lovers I spend time with have been such for many years and I met my husband 3 years ago. As we were getting to know each other, I explained to him about these friends, whom I love emotionally and, at times, physically, so the DADT is about specifics. Everyone lives in different cities these days so visits are infrequent. Most of these friends-lovers also have their own relationships. Some are no longer fully sexual relationships, but to me, my ident as poly is about love.
I am also in the process of learning about the energetic body and how to actually consciously harness that energy for pleasure and connection (think Chakras, Kundalini and Tantra, but not quite because I'm not using Eastern teachings, but those are the words that most people know.)
So, as I said to my now husband as I was getting to know him, I don't have hobbies, I have people.
kia kaha
Evie