Hi
Without going into too much detail.
I recently found out my gf of almost 2yrs is cheating on me and has cheated on me twice previously! She says she still loves me and doesn't want to lose me but she fell in love (it hurts to say it) with this new guy who, rather frustratingly, lives just around the corner from her in a big house with a pool!
My initial thoughts were to dump her and Run but we spoke about her non monogamy and we both realised she was just 'like that' and would be just 'like that' always with anyone. AND I'm totally in love with her. We decided to look into poly relationships. We read The Ethical Slut.
New guy is in denial and doesn't want to hear her talk about me. I've got all these feelings of jealously and insecurity and we have fought and cried to the point where we are both sick of talking about it. But I think I can make it work from my side if I can get over these feelings of possessiveness. I can't stop myself from asking her what she's getting up to and I'm worried that the lies will start again if she stops telling me. I can tell she's not telling me when she's due to see new guy again. This is a big problem.
I always knew (probably) that she was a horny slutty nympho and I was always turned on hearing her stories of ex boyfriends. This thing though is a whole new level of turned on-ness! We even spoke about her getting in touch with an old fuck buddy of hers. She's working away in Switzerland at the moment and we even bought some Condoms in case she wants to fucks someone!
I don't know if I can handle it all. Any advice?
Thanks for reading.
Without going into too much detail.
I recently found out my gf of almost 2yrs is cheating on me and has cheated on me twice previously! She says she still loves me and doesn't want to lose me but she fell in love (it hurts to say it) with this new guy who, rather frustratingly, lives just around the corner from her in a big house with a pool!
My initial thoughts were to dump her and Run but we spoke about her non monogamy and we both realised she was just 'like that' and would be just 'like that' always with anyone. AND I'm totally in love with her. We decided to look into poly relationships. We read The Ethical Slut.
New guy is in denial and doesn't want to hear her talk about me. I've got all these feelings of jealously and insecurity and we have fought and cried to the point where we are both sick of talking about it. But I think I can make it work from my side if I can get over these feelings of possessiveness. I can't stop myself from asking her what she's getting up to and I'm worried that the lies will start again if she stops telling me. I can tell she's not telling me when she's due to see new guy again. This is a big problem.
I always knew (probably) that she was a horny slutty nympho and I was always turned on hearing her stories of ex boyfriends. This thing though is a whole new level of turned on-ness! We even spoke about her getting in touch with an old fuck buddy of hers. She's working away in Switzerland at the moment and we even bought some Condoms in case she wants to fucks someone!
I don't know if I can handle it all. Any advice?
Thanks for reading.