MusicalRose
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Yeah uh, relationship anarchy does nowhere mean that you have to have fluid bonded sex with all of your partners if you have fluid bonded sex with any of them. That would be a major red flag for me too. Relationship anarchy means that you get to decide what each of your relationships mean to you and there is NO standard way to treat every partner or all partners, although any ethical relationship anarchists usually default to honesty/transparency and respect of consent.
If she is going to throw a temper tantrum and try to emotionally manipulate him into fluid bonding with her by threatening the end of the relationship, that's pretty horrible. I hope your boyfriend takes that information into account when he is deciding how to interact with her going forward.
If she is going to throw a temper tantrum and try to emotionally manipulate him into fluid bonding with her by threatening the end of the relationship, that's pretty horrible. I hope your boyfriend takes that information into account when he is deciding how to interact with her going forward.