Junction216
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Hubby and I have been married almost 20 years and have one adult child and one that lives at home. We've had our ups and downs and a few indiscretions. We've been exploring an open marriage/poly for about a year now. We've each had relationships outside our marriage during this time - his being far more sexual than mine. But he's had a very hard time finding a woman who is ok with him being married. Right now he's talking to a couple women but says it's just friends.
I've been with my metamour for a couple months now. After not making that emotional connection with any guys I was talking to, hubby practically forced me to contact my current metamour (he was one of my indiscretions years ago). Metamour and I love each other very much! And there is a very strong emotional as well as physical connection.
At first, hubby was totally cool with it. It didn't bother him at all. There were no "rules" as far he was concerned. He even took me by to see metamour while we were out running errands. But as time has gone by (and he has failed to find his own metamour), he's changed the rules. Metamour and I have only seen each other briefly once in the last two months. No sex. Now hubby has changed the rules - no sex and I can't even see him. He wants me to just stop talking to him altogether but I refused. It's putting a strain on our marriage. Metamour wants me in his life. Even if it's just friends. But he's really upset about the new "rules". I don't know how to proceed. Hubby is willing to walk away-no Hard feelings. But I want both
I've been with my metamour for a couple months now. After not making that emotional connection with any guys I was talking to, hubby practically forced me to contact my current metamour (he was one of my indiscretions years ago). Metamour and I love each other very much! And there is a very strong emotional as well as physical connection.
At first, hubby was totally cool with it. It didn't bother him at all. There were no "rules" as far he was concerned. He even took me by to see metamour while we were out running errands. But as time has gone by (and he has failed to find his own metamour), he's changed the rules. Metamour and I have only seen each other briefly once in the last two months. No sex. Now hubby has changed the rules - no sex and I can't even see him. He wants me to just stop talking to him altogether but I refused. It's putting a strain on our marriage. Metamour wants me in his life. Even if it's just friends. But he's really upset about the new "rules". I don't know how to proceed. Hubby is willing to walk away-no Hard feelings. But I want both