Before we became three, I asked Astraeus to shower before he came home from Daedalea to me. It's no big deal any more now (D and I sometimes tease each other about it now, because it's kind of sexy to be able to smell each other on him <3 ), but back then it was a bit of an emotional minefield and it seemed easier to do things that way. (He also showered before going to see her, by the way.)
I guess it's a personal preference for all involved, and one of those things you negotiate to try and find a way that everyone can be happy.
I guess it's a personal preference for all involved, and one of those things you negotiate to try and find a way that everyone can be happy.