Haven't juggled 2 before. Help!

Newto2

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Hello. I've been dating a married man for over a year & adjusted to those difficulties by and large. I've just gotten really serious really fast w a second man & feel almost apathetic about my longer-standing love. Just wondering if this is common. I know new relationship energy is a common thing & can make u prone to neglect. But I just figured he'd feel overshadowed in my heart-not THIS small.
 
Maybe it's time to tell married guy that you need to take a break from that relationship to let this new one play out in whatever direction it goes. You don't *have* to date both of them at once. Just because you've been a wing of a V, doesn't mean you have to be a hinge.

Sometimes relationships are meant to run their course, and perhaps yours and married guy's has.
 
Hi Newto2,

Sometimes NRE does make us neglectful towards our older relationship. You have to be extra careful about that. Perhaps asking the first man if he is getting the time and attention from you that he needs? would help.

I am of course assuming that you want to keep both men close to you.

Sincerely,
Kevin T.
 
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