iridescentbutterfly
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My husband and I have recently begun discussing the option of turning our marriage into a polyamorous one. I have finally found someone who I think would fit really well into our current arrangement, but I am looking to the stars before I pursue anything further, because they always give me surprising new insight.
Here is our bio...my husband is a 25 year old lovable Leo, outgoing, exuberant, with a giant heart of gold. His rising is also a Leo which makes him very balanced and stable, and his moon is in Gemini, the part of him, I think that is okay with/excited about trying this new relationship arrangement.
I am a 26 year old Gemini, attracted to intellect and driven by adventure, with a moon in Aries...a driven, passionate, and a little fiery emotional side, and I have Scorpio rising, which allows me to be more deep, intense, sexual, and reserved than most other Geminis.
The man we are considering pursuing is a VERY private introverted, intellectual Sagittarius (33). At this point I don't know the rest of his chart, but I have an idea that there must be some strong water influences because of his deep, quiet, reserved nature.
He is already close friends with my husband; this is how I know him actually, is through their friendship. (Sag + Leo = Bromance!) If we pursued a relationship with this man, their relationship would be mostly platonic, maybe sharing in some sexual moments together with me, as I think they both lean toward the straight side. I would like to see them ideally in an even closer friendship if this were to work, because how many guy friends are able to share something so sacred as a love for the same woman? I picture us going to dinner together, having family game nights together, taking vacations together...he would essentially be a part of the family.
I do think that we would be a good match together because we are both so intellectual, crave adventure, but both have the need for reflection and privacy, and of course as opposite signs there is a ridiculous amount of magnetism there.
The hubby and I also have a daughter, our little toddler Sagittarius. She is charming, bubbly, vivacious, intelligent, and she already likes and trusts this potential new partner.
So if we are going to bring this new Sagittarius in that would create a Sag-Gemini-Leo situation with a Sag child in the mix; I would be the air surrounded by a roaring fire! Anyone been in anything similar? Do you think this could work? I think as far as compatibility goes that this new man could be a perfect fit for our family, or am I wrong?
What are Gemini/Sag relationships like? Especially in a poly setting? Any feedback is appreciated!!
Here is our bio...my husband is a 25 year old lovable Leo, outgoing, exuberant, with a giant heart of gold. His rising is also a Leo which makes him very balanced and stable, and his moon is in Gemini, the part of him, I think that is okay with/excited about trying this new relationship arrangement.
I am a 26 year old Gemini, attracted to intellect and driven by adventure, with a moon in Aries...a driven, passionate, and a little fiery emotional side, and I have Scorpio rising, which allows me to be more deep, intense, sexual, and reserved than most other Geminis.
The man we are considering pursuing is a VERY private introverted, intellectual Sagittarius (33). At this point I don't know the rest of his chart, but I have an idea that there must be some strong water influences because of his deep, quiet, reserved nature.
He is already close friends with my husband; this is how I know him actually, is through their friendship. (Sag + Leo = Bromance!) If we pursued a relationship with this man, their relationship would be mostly platonic, maybe sharing in some sexual moments together with me, as I think they both lean toward the straight side. I would like to see them ideally in an even closer friendship if this were to work, because how many guy friends are able to share something so sacred as a love for the same woman? I picture us going to dinner together, having family game nights together, taking vacations together...he would essentially be a part of the family.
I do think that we would be a good match together because we are both so intellectual, crave adventure, but both have the need for reflection and privacy, and of course as opposite signs there is a ridiculous amount of magnetism there.
The hubby and I also have a daughter, our little toddler Sagittarius. She is charming, bubbly, vivacious, intelligent, and she already likes and trusts this potential new partner.
So if we are going to bring this new Sagittarius in that would create a Sag-Gemini-Leo situation with a Sag child in the mix; I would be the air surrounded by a roaring fire! Anyone been in anything similar? Do you think this could work? I think as far as compatibility goes that this new man could be a perfect fit for our family, or am I wrong?
What are Gemini/Sag relationships like? Especially in a poly setting? Any feedback is appreciated!!