Coleenie93
New member
Hi everyone. I have been dating a married man for a year today and I’m in reflection mode.
He says he loves me and treats me well...
He’s asked me to move in with him and share a life with them both and be a family, but part of me says don’t do it because he will never love me or value me as much as his wife.
Mostly because he’s known her longer. I don’t know if I can be in a relationship long term with someone who sees me that way.
I love him, but I’ve stayed in this relationship with the mindset that it’s temporary because I’ll eventually want more. To be a priority to someone.
I’m trying to understand how he really feels about me or if he’s just using me as something extra.
Any input or thoughts would be appreciated. The truth. No sugarcoating please.
He says he loves me and treats me well...
He’s asked me to move in with him and share a life with them both and be a family, but part of me says don’t do it because he will never love me or value me as much as his wife.
Mostly because he’s known her longer. I don’t know if I can be in a relationship long term with someone who sees me that way.
I love him, but I’ve stayed in this relationship with the mindset that it’s temporary because I’ll eventually want more. To be a priority to someone.
I’m trying to understand how he really feels about me or if he’s just using me as something extra.
Any input or thoughts would be appreciated. The truth. No sugarcoating please.