So I am 26 and have been married for 2 years, we have been together for 6 years. We agreeded that I could date but not have anything serious, which was fine. Except things got messy when my husband's BF told me he had feeling for me. We both knew that is wasn't smart to date so we didn't, we began to be friends, then close friends, then friend with benefits and now I love him. We are officially dating and my husband knows that my date turned into something more, but my husband doesn't know that it is his BF.
I am really happy with both of them and have always thought that polyamory was a beautiful and spectacular way to live and love. The problem is that now that I am officially dating him my husband and my date are both uneasy about it. So I could use some advice. If you have any please share.
The only thing I can think to do is wait for things to settle down, make sure to love both of them, and when everyone seems ready show my husband that my new boyfriend is his long time friend.
I am really happy with both of them and have always thought that polyamory was a beautiful and spectacular way to live and love. The problem is that now that I am officially dating him my husband and my date are both uneasy about it. So I could use some advice. If you have any please share.
The only thing I can think to do is wait for things to settle down, make sure to love both of them, and when everyone seems ready show my husband that my new boyfriend is his long time friend.