That was my guess with the tubal. They got burned somewhere so are extra cautious now.
Could buy some to start to make sure you have some of your favs on hand. He can buy his favs. Better you both have condoms than have none handy. You will eventually figure out what "our favs" are. Then ask him if you can chip in on cost later or take turns buying or what.
Same as dinner out. Split the check each time or take turns? You will figure that out as you go, I am sure. It is all part of getting to know each other more intimately.
Galagirl
So, I will throw this out there -- who buys the condoms? I bought a box but don't know if they are the right kind...and then wondered if I should be buying them or if he can get them in bulk or something.
How about guys buy the condoms and girls buy the lube? Just kidding but this made me laugh. Ah, the details of modern poly etiquette ...
When Dude and I got together I gave him a bunch of free condoms from the clinic. When he got together with Lotus, they initially used condoms from her stash, but it turns out he is much more particular about condoms than any previous partners so he ordered his preferred type in bulk.
Seriously, though, I would ask if he has a preference and then you BOTH by condoms so there are always plenty on hand.