nycindie
Active member
Hi all,
A few days ago, I was walking along a street on my break from work and noticed a sign outside a theater. It was advertising a show that is starring someone I knew way back when I was in my 20's and new to the city. We took classes together and even went on a date or two. We studied together for about three years and knew each other pretty well. Eventually, we both moved on from that circle of friends and lost touch. It has been about 28 or so years since we've seen each other.
I am dying to get in touch with him again! I googled him and was thrilled to learn how well he is doing, after a long, hard road to get there. I also find him attractive, and always did. It would be cool to hook up, I think. But I don't know if I should contact him by just going to the show and trying to see him backstage afterward, or to try and connect with him on Facebook first (I know he has a page). I don't want him to think it's just his success (and a certain level of fame) that is prompting me to reconnect - I truly want to tell him how happy I am to that he is succeeding in a diificult industry.
What would you do?
A few days ago, I was walking along a street on my break from work and noticed a sign outside a theater. It was advertising a show that is starring someone I knew way back when I was in my 20's and new to the city. We took classes together and even went on a date or two. We studied together for about three years and knew each other pretty well. Eventually, we both moved on from that circle of friends and lost touch. It has been about 28 or so years since we've seen each other.
I am dying to get in touch with him again! I googled him and was thrilled to learn how well he is doing, after a long, hard road to get there. I also find him attractive, and always did. It would be cool to hook up, I think. But I don't know if I should contact him by just going to the show and trying to see him backstage afterward, or to try and connect with him on Facebook first (I know he has a page). I don't want him to think it's just his success (and a certain level of fame) that is prompting me to reconnect - I truly want to tell him how happy I am to that he is succeeding in a diificult industry.
What would you do?
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