ConfusedPineapple
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Hi! I'm very new to posting these sort of things online, but I'm kind of in a bind. I've been in a relationship with my significant other for almost 2 years now, and I do see a future with them, but at the same time I'm just starting my life and I cant seem to stop thinking about other options. I've developed a bit of a crush on my friend, and on my coworker, and I feel bad for feeling this way but I just cant help it. I don't know if this is normal or not, but I'm just now starting my life and getting control of my anxiety and I feel like I don't want to miss out on the college life. My current relationship is the only one I've been in and I'm just craving a variety even though I'm not unhappy in my relationship. I almost feel like I met my partner too early, like I should have met them after I got all this wild stuff out of the way. But I feel like I might lose them if I try to move forward. Infidelity is out of the question (obviously) but if I'm in a relationship and THINKING about someone else it just feels just as bad. I dont know what to do, or how to bring up the idea of an open relationship, or taking a break or something. It's not that I don't love them, I just feel like I could have fun and love other people at the same time in the most innocent way possible. It doesnt seem wrong to me but I just don't know how to go about it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.